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When she talks, be a part of the conversation by asking random questions to make her feel that you are interested in her thoughts and feelings. However, never give your fixed opinion about any past experience. Make her feel comfortable, and try to find out reasons for her actions and reactions. It is also good to ask her about yourself and how she looks you in her life. You can start by asking questions about imaginary situations; what would happen if I react unexpectedly, and what if I become jobless?.